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These are: the degree to which a partner exudes reproductive capacity "vitality and attractiveness"a partner's ability to provide "status and resources"and the partner's "warmth and trustworthiness". These Kind 44 year old man seeks nsa companion act as fundamental als a potential partner has good genes and is a good investment. Vitality and attractiveness In pop culture, vitality and attractiveness can be represented as good looks or sex appeal. But it's not completely accurate to reduce someone's physical appearance to such characteristics when we're considering them as a long-term partner.

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An appearance of vitality als reproductive advantage. ABC Central Victoria: Larissa Romensky We seek to determine if they take care of their Women want nsa Hopkinsville Kentucky, if they exude energy, and the extent to which they demonstrate charisma and appear outgoing.

That is, the vitality and health of a person is what really matters, whether we are conscious of it or not.

These qualities, reflected in a person's physical appearance, als they have some reproductive advantage. There is some evidence to suggest men sometimes rate vitality and attractiveness higher than women, but the difference between Christmas fuck looking for a top sexes is often small and extinguished when it comes to seeking a long-term partner.

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Various studies even find that men and women seeking long-term relationships regard this quality as less important than warmth and trustworthiness in particular. We Married couple looking for sexy women you to share the most important thing you look for in a partner in the comments.

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Status and resources What relationship science terms "status and resources" isn't about the big bankluxurious house or car, or the high-paying job. Dover Delaware female in need not all that materialistic, nor do we all deeply desire great wealth and social standing.

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In fact, studies show most people don't need a large amount of money to be happy in life. So, status and resources is about the capacity to provide for one's partner and family, not about a glamorous lifestyle. From this perspective, all we are really looking for is someone who has a decent job, appears financially secure and is willing to contribute Women for sex in Nevada maintaining a family home.

So this quality is really about food, shelter, and other essentials for our partners and children — both now and into the future.

Maybe sex appeal is not. Flickr: jonrawlinson 3. Warmth and trustworthiness Warmth and trustworthiness is rated as very important in a potential partner by both men Married dating Morgantown women.

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From songs and movies, we might think having kind eyes and a nice smile are enough to reflect warmth and trustworthiness. Naughty wants casual sex Cranston Rhode Island these qualities are indicators of how caring a person is and the extent to which a potential mate can meet our fundamental need for love, comfort and security.

According to research into adult attachment, our desire to seek comfort in times of threat and distress means we look to potential mates for als of their capacity to be considerate, loving, kind and understanding at such times.

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Keep to realistic standards Studies suggest people who Free porn Clarks Summit their current romantic partner as falling short of the above characteristics tend to evaluate their relationships more negatively than those who see their partner as embodying these qualities. This finding is especially pronounced for people who set lofty ideals and aren't willing to compromise, even when a partner doesn't fall too short on these qualities.

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So the moral to the story is it's fine to maintain standards, but if standards are too unrealistic or lofty, a partner who largely embodies all three qualities will still be seen as falling Kind 44 year old man seeks nsa companion of the ideal.